Read this if you don’t feel complete

We’ve all been there. If someone says they haven’t, they’re lying. Feeling incomplete is a normal stage of life, and it happens more than once. Most people would say it’s a bad thing. I get it—it feels awful. But the truth is, it’s actually a blessing in disguise.

Think about the people who inspire you—the ones you look up to, the ones you aspire to be like. I bet every single one of them has sat in this exact feeling. At some point, they’ve asked themselves: Is this really all there is to life? And that question led them to one thing—change.

Searching in the Wrong Places

The mistake we all make is searching too hard. It’s good to seek answers, but most of the time, we’re looking in all the wrong places.

• Some chase a soulmate, pouring their energy into draining clubs or empty social scenes.

• Some throw themselves into a new hobby or business, even when they have little to no experience, hoping it will fill the void.

• Some turn to alcohol or drugs because the thought of feeling empty is too painful to face. Instead of finding relief, they only sink deeper.

But what if the answer isn’t outside of you? What if it’s within?

The Fear of Change

Making a change is hard, but not because we’re incapable. It’s hard because of what society has taught us.

• Men should do this. Women should do that.

• You need to keep your stable job because you’re “supposed to.”

• You should be grateful and stay where you are.

But I don’t want to just be comfortable—I want to be happy.

So ask yourself: What’s stopping you from living your best life? It won’t be easy. It will be risky, uncertain, and sometimes, you will fail. But that’s why you have to want it badly. You have to love your vision so much that waking up for it feels like a gift. If you work on your inner self first, the rest will align.

You Are the Only Thing Holding You Back

The biggest obstacle isn’t failure. It’s not money. It’s not time.

It’s you.

It’s the fear of what other people will think. The worry about what they’ll say. But when you really think about it, it’s silly. Are you really going to let someone else’s opinion stop you from living the life of your dreams?

At first, sure, it might hurt when people talk. But eventually, you’ll be too happy and too busy building your life to care.

Not Everyone Can Come With You

The hard truth? Not everyone in your life will support your growth.

When you start choosing yourself, evolving, and becoming the best version of you, some people won’t like it. Their energy won’t align with yours anymore. And instead of using your progress as inspiration, they’ll become jealous. They’ll project their fears onto you because your growth forces them to reflect on their own stagnation.

Let them go.

Because the people who truly love you? They’ll support you. And the ones who don’t? They were never meant to stay.

The Only Support You Need

When life feels incomplete, don’t search outside—look within and have faith.

The One who created this earth did not create you to talk down on yourself. He didn’t create you to live for the opinions of others. You were made for a higher purpose.

Even when it feels like your support system is crumbling, remember: you have the biggest support system in the sky.

And for me, that constant is Jesus Christ, my Savior.

We already have everything we need.

Now it’s time to start believing it.